Time to ride solo: Reverse Park gives you all the deep-penetration fun of Doggy Style, but without the partner. Next time you masturbate, get your fill of anal pleasure with a suction-cup dildo, while jacking yourself off at the same time. Next-level orgasms incoming...
How?
Start by taking time to relax and get ready for penetration. Tease your genitals and nipples with your fingers until you’re feeling turned on.
Attach your suction dildo to a flat, vertical surface – like a wall or bed headboard. Get into the on-all-fours Doggy Style position, and check that the dildo is placed at the right height and angle for you to comfortably back up onto it.
Once it’s in the right position, coat it with a slick of anal lube and slide yourself onto it.
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Why?
This is anal penetration entirely on your own terms. Experiment with depth and speed, as well as with different hip angles, to find out what feels incredible to you. You can share any new discoveries with a lover next time you’re enjoying partnered play – but for now, play around to find the best ways to get yourself off.
A quick note: if you’re new to anal play, it’s worth noting that many people find it takes a while to get used to. Stimulating those densely packed nerve endings can be a little overwhelming before it starts to feel incredible. Explore anal masturbation with a finger before you try anything larger.
One more thing: if you’re okay balancing on one hand rather than two, you can add to the pleasure of anal penetration by reaching down to stroke your penis or clitoris at the same time.
Make it even easier
Backing up onto a dildo on all fours might not work for you. If so, stick the dildo on a horizontal surface like a tiled floor. Place a cushion on either side, and kneel so you’re poised to sink down onto the dildo. For some people, this position will offer more control; see what works for you.
You might find it easier to insert the toy into your anus first, then inch yourself slowly backwards toward the wall or headboard until the dildo suctions itself into place. You can also place the dildo near a piece of furniture that you can lean against or hold onto to stabilize yourself if needed.
Make it even better
Since this move is all about finding out what works best for you, let’s explore your fantasies. Pick a fantasy dildo inspired by sea creatures, dragons, unicorns... whatever excites you most. Or try a beautifully veined, silky soft ejaculating dildo if you prefer realism.
Ever found yourself daydreaming about enjoying two lovers at once? If you’ve got a vulva, try attaching two suction-cup dildos to the wall for double penetration – or place two side by side, to imitate two partners taking it in turns to pleasure you.
Make it even kinkier
While you’re busy filling yourself up with the suction dildo, let hands-free nipple clamps add another layer of sensual stimulation into the mix. There are vibrating options to add intensity.
Want to heighten sensation even further? Bring in a clit clamp, ball stretcher, clit sucker or stroking sleeve. The more erogenous zones you can tap into at once, the more intense your orgasm is likely to be once you climax.
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