Show your partner just how much you adore them with The Worshipper: this position is all about surrendering yourself to your partner and letting them take the lead.

From this position, they can lavish attention on your most sensitive areas — using their tongue, lips, and hands to bring you to new heights of pleasure. For even deeper connection and intimacy, try resting one leg over your partner's shoulder.

Plus, if one of you has a vulva, the new Womanizer Enhance will bring some irresistible clitoral stimulation to The Worshipper. It’s the first clitoral suction toy to combine our patented Pleasure Air Technology with deep, rumbly vibrations, making orgasms almost inevitable. Tips on how to use it below!

Why?

The Worshipper is about trust, surrender, and selflessness. It can also be exciting for the giving partner to be in a more submissive role.

Being on the receiving end of such focused attention and devotion can be incredibly arousing for the receiving partner. It's a chance to truly let go, savor the sensations, and receive all the pleasure your partner has to offer.

Make it even easier

If standing for long periods is difficult, the receiving partner can sit comfortably in a chair or on the edge of the bed. Experiment with different heights and angles for your propped-up leg to find what feels best.

For the giving partner, kneeling can be tiring, so try using a pillow or cushion for extra support or sit comfortably on the floor.

Make it even better

The Worshipper is the perfect position to let your partner's tongue be the star of the show. But that doesn’t mean you can’t add some accessories.

For those with vulvas, the Womanizer Enhance is a must-try, especially for anyone who isn’t quite ready for oral sex — whether that’s for emotional or physical reasons. Place the silky soft suction head over the clitoris and decide if you want to enjoy erotic air pulsations, deep satisfying vibrations… or both! While one of you holds the toy in place, the giver can lick, stroke, or finger the receiver at the same time.

The giving partner can also use the Enhance on themselves while pleasuring their partner with their mouth or free hand. With clever timing, you can even bring each other to orgasm simultaneously!

Don't forget about the power of G-spot stimulation in this position. With a dildo or even skillful fingers, the giving partner can provide direct and firm stimulation, which can be incredibly intense when combined with clitoral stimulation (and may even lead to squirting).

Make it even kinkier

If power dynamics get you going, The Worshipper is an opportunity to explore that.

The standing partner can thrust her vulva against her partner's mouth, controlling the speed and depth of the pleasure. Or, the kneeling partner can hold her lover's hands behind her back, forcing her to surrender to the adoration.

Want to dial things up a notch? Try introducing restraints. Soft cuffs on the wrists can be surprisingly intimate. Or maybe a bondage rope playfully tied around the kneeling partner’s legs. It’s a way to open yourself up to new levels of vulnerability, trust, and playful power dynamics, and see where it leads.

Words can also be incredibly powerful, especially in a position as intimate as this. Whisper affirmations of devotion or give commands that your partner must obey.

Not the position for you?

We're working to make sure that everyone is represented on our website, regardless of who you love, so we'll be using a variety of gender depictions in our Position of the Week posts. This will include straight, gay, lesbian, and gender neutral couples, but all positions will have details in the description of how to make them work for your own relationship dynamic.