Position of the Week:
Backstage Pass

Grab those juicy cheeks and get a load of that ass – you’ve got VIP access! Backstage Pass gives you permission to show your lover exactly how hot you find their behind.

If penetration is pre-agreed, dart your tongue in and out of the anus. And, when you’re done rimming, bring in a sensual toy like anal beads to keep the party going (more on that below).

Why?

Rimming (aka analingus) isn’t for everyone, but hear us out! The anus is full of sensitive nerve endings, which makes it an erogenous zone for a lot of people.

Licking, kissing, or even stroking this area can be an exciting form of foreplay. Plus, when paired with other kinds of sex, it can make your orgasms even more intense.

Still not convinced? You can use this opportunity to squeeze and tease your lover’s booty – without actually licking their anus. Run your hands up their thighs as your kiss their cheeks. Stroke the sensitive skin between their anus and their genitals or hold their cheeks as kiss the vulva or balls from below.

Make it even easier

The receiving partner might prefer to lean against a wall or kneel and bend over the bed. Otherwise, consider a sex swing, which will give you access to your lover’s sweet spots without them bearing the weight themselves.

If the giving partner is the one who needs support, they can recline on the bed or floor while their lover straddles the giver’s face or sits in a position enhancing chair. Prop the giver’s head and neck with pillows to help them reach the good stuff.

Make it even better

The anus can be ticklish, so be sure to warm your lover up first. Caressing, kissing, or nibbling the thighs and cheeks can help prepare them to be touched in more sensitive areas. You can also tease them with your breath, bringing your mouth close to the anus and exhaling lightly.

Rimming is an incredible appetizer but pair it with genital stimulation for a really satisfying feast.

If your lover has a vulva, you can reach between their legs to finger them while you lick. Or encourage them to play with a clitoral vibrator while you worship their booty. If your lover has a penis, fondle their balls or reach around to give them a handie while you bury your face in their cheeks.

Everyone comfortable with anal penetration? Using plenty of anal lube, slip in some anal beads to intensify the good sensations. Gently slide the first few beads in and out while you start pleasuring your lover’s genitals. Intense orgasms, this way.

Make it even kinkier

This is a golden opportunity for roleplay, if you’re curious. Grab a nurse costume and tell your lover it’s time for their physical exam. You could begin by freshening them up with an anal douche (read the instructions carefully) before preparing the area with a lube applicator. Show them your best bedside manner as you start probing them from behind. What’s the prognosis – more delicious orgasms?

Not the position for you?

We're working to make sure that everyone is represented on our website, regardless of who you love, so we'll be using a variety of gender depictions in our Position of the Week posts. This will include straight, gay, lesbian, and gender neutral couples, but all positions will have details in the description of how to make them work for your own relationship dynamic.